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February 11, 2014
“Should I Use Sex To Get Ahead?”
I’m always getting really interesting emails from girls all over the world and I love reading all of them, but this email in particular really...
October 23, 2013
Wanting a Man…The Black Woman’s Kryptonite?
I am a first generation, college educated black woman with 2 (and a half) degrees, a successful blog, a pretty good sized social media following,...
July 25, 2013
What To Wear To Meet His Parents
First impressions are key and what you wear can make or break you!
April 25, 2013
Meet My “Mr. Big”…
Last night, I met Mr. Big. I call him that not because he’s anything like the Sex in the City character we’ve all grown to...
March 24, 2012
BATTLE OF THE SEXES: Vanessa vs. Kobe
Unless you spent the last 6-8 hours under a rock on an undiscovered planet in a distant galaxy, you know that the entire worldwide web...
December 17, 2011
I Tried the ‘Good Guy’. It Wasn’t So Good.
What were you doing at 3am this morning? While the majority of you were probably sleeping (and a few of you mighta been getting lucky),...
April 12, 2011
5 Ways Women Play Themselves
I did a post earlier this week about the ways that men play themselves in this game called ‘dating’. So, it’s only fair that I...
July 7, 2010
So Much for the ‘Great White Hope’
“Hollow diatribes like this, reeking of machismo and senseless boasting, are nothing new. Just a transparent attempt to silence the collective female voice. It’s telling...
June 24, 2010
“Why are Black Women…”
So awesome? So strong? So beautiful? So intelligent? So undervalued and unappreciated? All of these questions would make for great headlines. But you wanna know...
June 23, 2010
Would You Ever Make a Sex Tape?
Yesterday, while hanging out in my living room with a male friend, Kendra Wilkinson was on E! discussing her recent battle with a sex tape...
June 9, 2010
Should You Keep Your Ex’s Clothes?
You’ve got a new boyfriend, but those sweatpants you stole from your ex are so comfortable…it is ok to keep them? (If you’ve got explanations,...
May 26, 2010
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